No.9391
Don't look for friends on the internet
Anyone you don't meet in real life isn't real
No.9393
>>9391I am a refugee with no social skills zelligbro. How am I supposed to find "friends" irl?
No.9395
>>9394if theres one lesson you can take from zellig, its never over
No.9396
>>9395I thought it was that racism is good
No.9401
>>9400
Oldtroon please kys
No.9402
>>9393>I am a rapefugeeYikes
No.9404
>>9402Haven't you heard of the war that is going right now in the Europe, sweetie?
No.9406
>>9393>refugeejust rape, you're literally living on easy mode
No.9409
>>9390Discord isn’t worth it, that god awful platform is nothing more than a drama magnet. Unless you want to get involved in middle school gossip, avoid it at all costs.
No.9410
>>9406I'm christian and white. (((They))) will not defend my ass.
No.9411
>>9409Where do I socialise then? The only people I speak on the web are racists I occasionaly stumble upon. I am on the verge of going insane. All I do everyday is workout and read books and stuff.
No.9413
>>9411Just take part in a local far-right group, or go to Ukraine to fight the neobolsheviks idk. Whatever, if you're a smart person, then you'll never find happiness in (((modern))) (((society))), so you don't have to worry about it.
No.9414
>>9413>Just take part in a local far-right groupTrying to get this guy killed by a troon shooter?
Also I would never want to be friends with a bunch of poltards/redneck neo nazis. Sounds un bearable.
No.9415
>>9414The Eastern-European rightoids are very different from the Western one, you would see a contrast if you come to, for example, Poland or Lithuania.
No.9421
>>9418Cord shilling cord woke up
No.9424
>>9398this image is so unironicly fucking stupid its genuinely hilarious lmao
No.9425
>>9418>you shouldnt be searching for friends just for the sake of having friendsFAKE. THIS is how I'm friendless for almost 3 years now. Because I haven't seeked for human interaction. This advice only works for normies.
>I would advise that you should learn to be aloneBVLLSHIT. This doesn't work unless you live in a cabin in da woods. Anywhere I go, I am reminded of my lonelines, however tbf 90% of the times I ignore it, but deep down I feel inferior.
>Just try out different hobbies/goalsI have no willpower left for this.
>I have meat great people on discordI guess I will try it out. I don't remember the last time I spoke to someone like with my voice THOUGH…. whatever
No.9429
>>9425yall niggas rather browse/chat on the zarty than talk to any human being 💀 😭
No.9431
>>9429I take it you're joking, since many people here do have actual lives and relationships.
But even if I don't think it's a very good time for jokes, this man is depraved of human contact, that is severely bad for you, lets show him some respect and help guide him towards a better future.
No.9432
>>9431more truth, lets help a fellow zelligbro out
No.9433
>>9431obviously yes am joking, but yeah of course we ur right.
No.9434
>>9432im sorry bros for being a dick lol.
No.9436
>>9434I don't mind you being dick to me as long as you're a chud rightoid and you love zellig
No.9437
>>9425>you shouldnt be searching for friends just for the sake of having friendswhat he means is that you need to take your time and build up relationships and find people who you truly connect with. building up a social life takes time and youn cant rush it for the sake of having someone. trust me i get what its like to not have a social life, i believe in you
No.9440
>>9437And how do you that? Should I come to random people on the street and start sperging out about da joos or what
No.9441
>>9436 self identified chud despite being a minority 🤑
No.9443
>>9441I'm white and I hate jews and I want tnd. That's enough
No.9444
>>9443i hate jews cause brooklyn is jew-topia, my great dutch heritage was literally replaced with moisha 😭
No.9446
>>9444mind you am not dutch
No.9448
>>9425>FAKE. THIS is how I'm friendless for almost 3 years nowWhat do you mean "fake"? You shoudn't be making friends just so to have friends. You will end up in shitty relationships.
You will find friends naturally. I'm not trying to screw you over. Again, just go out and do some hobbies. Maybe talk to people in your uni. But just dont make friends for friends sake.
this guy also tells some trvthnvks>>9437
>BVLLSHIT. This doesn't work unless you live in a cabin in da woods. Anywhere I go, I am reminded of my lonelines, however tbf 90% of the times I ignore it, but deep down I feel inferior.Establish a relationship with God. Go to an orthodox church. If you seek love, then you will find it in God.
Again, i dont wish for you to end up in some shit friendgroup that will screw you over. You will have times where you will not be around nice people and it would be better if you just leave them, even if it means you will be all by yourself.
>I have no willpower left for this.Oh cmon man. I'm sure you have something that you are good at or you are interested in. If you have no willpower on yourself, how will you have the willpower to deal with others?
>I guess I will try it out. I don't remember the last time I spoke to someone like with my voice THOUGH…. whateverJust be careful where you go. Obviously, joining a furry RP server would not be a great choice.
No.9450
>>9440>>9440as for online, start with finding online spaces that match your interests, talk around and try to find someone.
as for irl the most i can say is to hang around places, try to start up conversations with people you think might look neat (though i for certain know thats easier said than done) or see if anyone comes up to you. if im being honest part of getting a social life can be up to luck, but that doesnt mean making an effort is worthless
i may not be the best to give advice on getting a social life as i still mostly lack one (though things are looking up), but trust me it can get better. in the mean time im sure the zarty would be glad to have you even if its mostly anonymous and impersonal
No.9451
>>9448>Go to an orthodox church.Zoot woke up
No.9452
>>9440as for hobbies, what are you into? do you have interests in art, reading, writing etc.? for instance try doodling just random shit every now and then and see if you get into it. it wont look good the first time or even the tenth time, but it doesnt have to immediately.
what i guess im trying to say is; find some hobbies you may be interested in and start small, ease into it and see what you llike
No.9454
>>9448Not OP but im currently in the "talk to people on college" step. Ive meet quite alot of people and some of them are nice and offer help. Its still overwelming to go from asocial to gezellig in a short amount of time doe.
No.9459
>>9453It's trve, the Church choir sung it last saturday
No.9462
>>9454>>9443yeah, theres honestly no INSTANT solution. it may take months or even years but itll be worth it. a lot of this is also working on ones mindset about this stuff. im not entirely sure how to explain it, but being nicer to yourself in our head pays off even if its a long and very hard process.
ik "think good things" is corny and generic, but it can pay off. in my experience its not 'bad' advice just not immediate advice. its just something worth trying to do though i know it may not exactly work for everyone
No.9466
>>9452What I do everyday is working out while listening to nsbm, dungeon synth and genres like that and reading some stuff like Mein Kampf or Nietsze or some pdfs I found in telegram, stuff like that and I also like to go on long walks around the city.
What I'm not bad at is coding but I can't find a fulltime job due to being autistic. I don't like the thing though.
Pretty much that's all what I do, are these activites "hobbies" or what? I genuinely don't understand what the word means.
>>9448>Maybe talk to people in your uni.I study online, the uni is not located in the country I'm staying in.
>Establish a relationship with God.Never been a religious person, and I don't like orthodoxy. I just can't feel that there is something bigger there.
>>9462>it may take months or even years but itll be worth it.I start to think that it will not. Maybe I need to learn survival skills and disappear into the woods.
>think good thingsI know that this works from science and stuff, but this is hard if I consider the situation my folk is in
No.9469
>>9466>I know that this works from science and stuff, but this is hard if I consider the situation my folk is inthats perfectly reasonable, i understand it can be hard to think anything good when your life is shit/feels like shit
on the hobbies thing again, maybe try downloading a music program and learn to make some stuff in your free time, just for fun. if it sucks thats okay, no one else has to listen to it and eventually you will improve the more you practice. that could be a good start
No.9471
>>9466also what kind of coding? games, web development, etc.? maybe just try to mess around with your coding skills for fun. im sure if you got good enough skills then autism shouldnt be too much of a hindrance to getting a job though idk the tolerance people have for autism where youre staying
No.9472
>>9466>Never been a religious person, and I don't like orthodoxy. I just can't feel that there is something bigger there.I'd suggest you give it a serious try. There are many people on the tube that are great for this topic. For example, you can check some of Kyle's playlists
https://www.youtube.com/@OrthodoxKyle/playlists Even if you dont agree, its great to chalange your wolrdview. There are also other great channels, but you will find them by proxy.
If you don't have a strong moral base and a connection with God, you won't go very far in life.
No.9478
>>9472This “orthodox” larp is so fucking GAY AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
No.9480
>>9478silence, let this moment of zaryans getting along happen.
No.9482
>>9477Even if you are happy and sucesful (by what moral standard; it could be argued that there is no objective morality, if any, on the worldview of an atheist öÖö; nontheless there are videos on that topic, on the channel that i have linked too), I would still recommend to try and go to an orthodox church/ learn more about orthodoxy. As you said, you get to meet new people. You also get to learn new stuff and to develope your personality.
>>9478eventho i dont larp, you nasty internet troll. BEGONE!
No.9484
>>9478orthodox or not we're all united under zellig
No.9485
>>9448>>9472>orthodoxtheres a reason why moskals are sectioned off from the rest of the planet
No.9488
>>9486I like this thread aldoebeit
No.9498
>>9496thanks for the sauce
No.9527
>>9496even of the chuddle field love can bloom…
No.9550
>>9466>What I do everyday is working out while listening to nsbm, dungeon synth and genres like thatListen to gabber. The Dutch know how to make techno
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnnGjBPAMkw No.18471
>>9390How are you doing zaryan?
No.18476
Literally me. I got no friends, no social skills, no money, no looks and I live in a shitty inland town in a third world country where everyone is hypersocialized. I am one step away from an heroing, but it's a big step.
Even when I tried using 'cord I am very self conscious of my voice and my heavy ESL accent, so that did not work very well for me.
No.18478
>>9390Literally me I’m Maya irl
Have been using der cord for a lil while now I’ve been on the ‘Zellig community cord haven’t been groomed yet