>>45905You likely won't change in humour at least if you get a girlfriend. And your political views will likely not change, just will be less top of mind perhaps if you're one to obsess.
I have had non-prostitute hookups with 5 different women, been with 3 prosties, and an official IRL relationship for 1.5 years, yet even I still enjoyed imageboards during my 'long' relationship.
I don't date obese girls and have super short height and known as weird (am probs an austist) so it isn't easy for me to find dates or anything, /soc/ once rated my face 6/10 to 7/10 on average, and my body is definitely way below average.
Basically, unless you're extremely impressionable/weak willed, then you won't change for your girlfriend.
For jobs keep jumping around until you find one comfy enough. I do a job in which I barely have to talk to anyone and do menial labour so can think about whatever I want at work like work on a novel in my head.
I wonder what you mean by chuddy qualities specifically. I know that even with GF you'll likely still care about what you cared about earlier. Same passions. If you don't anymore then you never were a 'true chud™'
And if you breakup you'll likely revert back. I am a little scarred from my dating experiences. Sex is fun but overrated. Going to theme park with best friend is way more fun. And you should learn to confide in friends rather than be needy in confiding to your woman if you get one.
Anyway, that's enough from me - if anyone even read all this. Hope it helped assuage your worries a tiny bit.