No.14220
all the advises about finding a gf sound like a total bullshit to me cuz they are all contradictory
>uh you shouldn't care about what girls fins attractive, just stop TRYING, just be yourself and you will find one cuz girls are when you aren't being urself!
>in that case I am myself, as a man I enjoy feeling manly, so I go to gym to be muscular cuz I like being muscular, and I enioy manly hobby such as cars
>uh well actually men think girls find being masculine and doing masculine things attractive, but actually they do not. they actually like flamboyant guys who read books and like feminine stuff blah blah blah, maybe actually listen to women what they find attractive
or:
>man just stop trying to find a girl because that makes you look imposing yourself on her, just stop trying, be completely casual, you wilk just find one naturally, just focus on your life and your goals
>I stop trying to find a girl, I just focus on myself and my life, studying and going to gym and trying to make money. however, somehow, that doesn't magically bring me a gf
>uhhh but it's because you aren't even trying yknow you gotta put yourself out there and talk to her, show that ur interested, make a first move blah blah blah
vented on dutch anime site award
No.14221
*girls hate when you aren't being urself
inb4 esl award
No.14223
>tfw you're never had any conversation with a girl in forever and never got past a single "hi" since middle school
Uhhh idk man women are scary or something
No.14224
>>14222Even ugly and retarded guys get laid, the problem is that op might be unfunny, has an unbearable personality or he emanates that trvecel aura that keeps everyone away
No.14249
>>14220Yes it is just luck and randomness, people don´t get it and trying to rationalize this creates the bullshit advice you se on /adv/ and repiller videos. I myself I'm a fakecel/volcel as I don´t ever care what I do with my life, if didn't got a serious relationship with a girl on school/work environments I may never get one in the future. I just don´t think about sex/having a girlfriend/gooning that much tbh.
No.14250
>>14249So long as you lower yourself to any whores level you can get laid; but you must find a girl who is already on your level in order to find a real women. Older folks lived in a time when those women were in surplus- then feminism and the sexual revolution happened, so now decent women are few and far between. I'm not (and nor should you) be envious of people in relationships, trust me you aren't missing out on dating most moden women.
No.14251
>>14250Replied to the wrong person, this was meant for OP.
No.14252
>>14220Number one rule: Find out what women want.
No.14253
>>14224EXACTLYBE an all-rounder. For me it's confidence, looks, charisma, rizz/game, stature, status, AND THE REST FOLLOWS
No.14254
>>14220Luck Zaryan, it all comes to that
No.14255
>>14252Apparently not him.
No.14277
>>14249Damn I wish I had a mindset like that. I tried it already, trying to not care and focus on other aspects of life, but the frustration can't leave me and I still catch myself fantasizing about a happy relationship. And Im still lost whether should I learn to stop caring, or learn how to rizz. ig learning to stop caring is a more valuable, all-around skillset. that's what I'm gonna try to focus on.
No.14278
>>14277You just don't goon often enough for your monkey part of the brain not to be stuck in "needs to find mate" mode all the time. Goon more, goon early, goon often.
No.14280
>>14279You should be goonmaxxing right now instead of deliberately putting yourself into misery like a masochist. Shut that monkey brain down and focus on actually useful things.