Question & Answer

The biggest enemy you need to fight and overcome is your mind.
I've been studying female psychology for a long while now, and knowing how your friends already see that you have potential in talking to the girl you like, go for it!
Start with asking her likes and hobbies, then go from there. The hardest part of talking to a woman is not actually the conversation itself, but the mindgames you battle before trying to start a convo with her.
Take the risk, the girl won't hate you for talking to her. She'll be happy to talk to you once you start initiating. Women love men who lead, especially the convo. Make sure you ask open-ended questions, especially those that make her smile and laugh. Add teases and joke around with her every now and then with her replies, and add a little bit of teasing every now and then.
If you have more questions feel free to reply 👌

>>7767
thank you my friend, I think one of my biggest obstacles is starting the conversation, but I'll trust in God and pray that he'll give me wisdom and words to succeed with her, thank you

>>7768
Praying for you too man, God bless you 🙏

>>7769
have an amazing day my friend

>>7767
>the girl won't hate you for talking to her
Women, especially young women, basically hate men by default nowadays, especially those who bother them in any way.

>>7766
If your friends think you have a good shot, you probably do. Also if shit hits the fan, you'll have those same friends to fall onto, something that not everyone has

Be tall and handsome.
>>7772
Based.

You should treat her like a friend but also be a little flirtatious. Find out what you guys have in common and start from there, build upon it and see what you guys feel/learn from and about each other and maybe partake in each others hobbies you haven’t done before or go to the movies if you can drive or get a ride. Start small and work your way up, don’t put so much pressure on it.

What happened zigga

I was going to talk to her today but I couldn't do it, I'll try again tomorrow, I hate being so Mayapilled

>>7789
Just be Cocopilled and she will fall in love with you

>>7789
Zaryan, I believe in (You)

>>7789
A good way to start a convo is by complimenting her in some regard. Like if you were to say a compliment about her shirt, don't say 'Oh hey nice shirt" and then start talking more about the shirt than her. Instead try saying for example "You look great in that shirt" and focus most of the compliments on her.

>>7793
this is a very good idea actually, thank you

>>7793
Translated: women love when you talk about them

>>7794
Remember, small talk is key. And everything you say should be an answer to a question or a question for her to answer. Don't say stuff that you know she won't have an answer for and just keep complimenting her alongside your answers.
I helped a friend back then get a gf and the easiest way is to just compliment her a lot. Hell my brother also did that for his gf.

>>7813
Don't we all

>>7814
noted, I can't sperg out until I successfully start dating her, if I believe in myself and the Lord wills it I can do this

maybe try this
https://web.archive.org/web/20230228032532/https://www.swan.date/blog/how-to-make-just-about-anyone-fall-in-love-with-you

>>7793
But when I compliment their looks, they look at me weirdly as if I make them uncomfortable. What's their problem? Should I just go for fat bitches?

>>7823
Compliment not their looks but their character

>>7825
Personality? Most girls don't have it now, today almost every single one came to school with UGG goyslop shoes on. They all have a herd-mentality personality, only following the trends. They aren't worth my time or dick... yet I feel the urge to impress them. What do anon?

>>7826
find a woman of value then

>>7826
Kill and rape, in this exact order
Or just find a mentally ill foid

Women are awful and I actively avoid them.
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>>7826
Your youth's hormone activity forces you to seek partner, couple more years of loneliness, and it will slowly end, you will no longer care about them

>>7832
unironically this, just wait it out

>>7834
Ehh wouldn't recommend that, I had pretty harsh youth, which gave me nice mental strenght and even then I nearly acked myself once that final phase of youth hormone activity hitm Depression was so ridiculously hard that I felt like nature itself tried to eradicate me with my own hands. If that young zaryan fella has chance to achieve his hormones desires he should take it, otherwise he may not survive the final test

>>7835
>I had pretty harsh youth
What doesn't kill you will leave you scarred for life.

>>7836
It is what it is

>>7835
I have unironically become a Christo-anarchist. Thank you.

OP again, I almost did it but the bell rang and I had to go to class, I've mostly overcome the anxiety, I just need to wait until tomorrow, I'll keep you all updated if this thread is still alive or if people are interested

>>7839
Come on Zaryan, get that foid

>>7839
I believe in and am praying for you!

>>7839
You've got this, buddy. Talking to a girl is more than most Zaryans will ever get on this site. Do better than us.

update: I did it, we had a short conversation that ended on an opportunity to talk again tomorrow, I think it'll be easier in the future now that I've broken the ice

this is a major victory for me

>>7845
but what was her reaction, enthusiastic or more defensive?

>>7846
she was definitely relaxed, she actually engaged in the conversation instead of just answering questions and ignoring me after

>>7845
>>7847
VVIN
If you both feel comfortable then congrats zaryan

>>7847
Brilliant, it's smooth sailing from here on out.

>>7848
>>7849
I hecking VVON, I'll inform you all about updates when anything interesting happens

>>7857
>I'll inform you all about updates when anything interesting happens
But nothing ever happens...

>>7860
trve

>>7845
really proud of you zaryan

>>7860
bigger trvth nvke than the ones that hit Hiroshima and Nagasaki...

>>7880
he has done more in these 4 days than i have done over the course of my entire life, even if this is a nothingwaffle, he has still managed to talk to a real foid successfully, i am very proud

>>7881
No doubt about that, the progress he's made is great. But nothing ever works out how you want it. My only girlfriend dated me out of pity because my dad died, and dumped me a week later. Just because she seems interested doesn't mean she is, that's all.

>>7882
All our experiences are different. You could never really apply what happened to you to OP, and vice-versa. It's best if we learn from each other and apply what we learned for the future

>>7883
You're not wrong, I've moved on, but I just think it's better to be cautious about things like this, especially when it comes to girls.

>>7884
yeah I'm definitely being cautious with her, I've been rejected roughly 5-7 times now and you never get used to it, but I'm still gonna have hope

>>7886
Damn, 5-7? I don't even have the balls to do that, I'm too afraid of rejection and humiliation... how do you do it?

>>7887
I have no idea how to be honest, most of them were before I stopped talking to people though, autism might play a role in it of zoiets

>>7888
That's not a very clear answer... I suppose you just had more confidence before you self-isolated?

>>7889
yeah, that's probably it

regardless, I'm winning again

>>7890
Glad to hear it, better than me.

>>7891
I wish you the best my friend, now that I've talked to her once I feel so much less anxious, I believe in you Zaryan

>>7892
Thanks Zaryan!

This thread was absolute kino y'all.

That's really nice /b/ tier fictional story thread.

>>7895
>Thread? Fake.
>OP? Gay.

>>7895
Just wait until OP takes a selfie with his girlfriend.

>>7895
>That's really

>quoting random phrases with ESL

>>7897
once it gets to that point I'll definitely send photographic proof without doxxing either of us, gotta prove the demoralizers wrong

>>7895
>OP is lying... because he just is, ok?!

>>7900
TruthGETnoua